Post edited 8:03 am - February 27, 2010 by mohd azmi, maisarah
salam . . .
seemed like u have the same problem like me. huhu. after a while perusing over this matter, searching the net and asking people for their advice. alhamdulillah, i think there are solution to this matter.
firstly, we are Muslim. so we have to be proud being a Muslim. if we look back at the seerah, the sahabat had achieved many great things whatever their circumstances is.
second, we have Allah and we must always pray to Him that He show us the way to be more confident.
third, jangan tunjukkan rasa kurang percaya diri tu kepada orang lain. macam mengutuk diri sendiri– kata tak pandai, aku memang fail benda-benda macam ni.
fourth, terima diri seadanya apapun kelebihan dan kekurangan kita. kalau kelemahan tu sesuatu yang kita boleh ubah, cuba improve lagi.
fifth, try google tip-tip menjadi individu yang menarik. macam kelakar tapi try la.
sixth, cuba menjadi imam solat berjemaah inshaAllah. mula-mula rasa tak yakin rasa macam mesti banyak salah, bacaan tak betul semua tapi kita kena latih diri. hadapi walaupun payah.
n there are many places where u can get help in the uni to improve urself- such as to improve ur English. just need to work a bit harder but inshaAllah, u will definitely improve. give time to yourself to improve, though. for example, like me, i want to be a fluent English speaker but I know that this cannot be achieved in a short time, so don't set unrealistic goals. But remember, Allah promise that people who work hard to achieve something, Allah will grant him success.
lastly, just wanna share a link. in case it mite be helpful.
http://cahayapenyeri.blogspot&…..rkaya.html
p/s: majalah SOLUSI yang terbaru, topik dia : bagaimana menjadi seorang yang berkeyakinan. leh mintak tlg org m'sia poskan kot.
sekadar perkongsian. maaf andai ada yang khilaf.